"We develop our propensity to forgive or not to forgive by what we see illustrated at the early ages of our development. We don't come here unforgiving. Children are not unforgiving. You can punish them and they will hug you in a few minutes,"TD Jakes: We Are Born Forgiving in Nature; Unforgiveness Is Learned
How many Elephants are there in the room now? I've lost count. That's ok, we'll just train the Elephant to do a few more tricks and call it orthodox. Case closed!