A Church On Fire
and asked me
Strange Fire indeed!
Would you have this woman at the end baysit (sic) your daughter?
Please view the video and then continue reading.
I replied to both James and Jackie (with a few added phrases for clarity now that I reread it! indicated by brackets and blue text):
My sister did exactly that with my daughter (now 15) when she was about 5 years old. Took her to her wacky church, MADE her go up front too after my daughter protested and didn't want to go (She saw all the people rolling around). She went up and as I recall her telling me, she fell down too and just laid there. She seems to remember feeling like she didn't go down voluntarily, but as a child who knows? She said her memory of it is a little foggy.
She knows it is not of God and even as a little child [it seems] she knew... and I did not know that my sister did this until a few years ago. It infuriates me. My sister is currently living in Florida and has very little contact with the family, doesn't even hardly check in on her aging and very ill, depressed and lonely mother - won't move closer to home to help mom out because she 'doesn't like the cold weather.'
How's that for compassionate and Christlike?
I told her a few years ago, after many years of patience and prayer, that the teachers she was following were teaching her lies (at the time she was enjoying Rick Joyner) and her salvation experience was questionable to me. She had been on the verge of killing herself when she saw Ken Copeland and he said something about turning it all over to Jesus and dont' do something desperate. (something along those lines) so she immediately began speaking in tongues. To her it was real so she insists it was the Holy Spirit. And one thing led to another, and she has followed every fad. I am almost certain she is down there checking this out too. She will not speak to me anymore about anything spiritual.
[I guess I'm just one of those spiritually dead Christians stuck in dead religiosity. Sigh.]
BTW my oldest daughter loves the Lord and doesn't fall for any of this stuff. She is even discerning enough now to start picking out messages that are just man-centered (purpose driven, emergent, new age, seeker sensitive) rather than outright blasphemous. Our 12 year old [girl] is pretty sharp on that too. And the almost 9 yr old [boy] is coming along too. We talk about these things with them all the time. Youtube is a GREAT tool for showing them examples of false teaching. And we listen to a LOT of great teaching too and discuss it. I love talking about Jesus with my family. I only wish my extended family felt the same. Jason's family is definitely in love with the Lord and loves to discuss spiritual things, but my family remains immature and carnal, despite my Dad's best attempts to instruct us before he died in 1990.
BTW my oldest daughter loves the Lord and doesn't fall for any of this stuff. She is even discerning enough now to start picking out messages that are just man-centered (purpose driven, emergent, new age, seeker sensitive) rather than outright blasphemous. Our 12 year old [girl] is pretty sharp on that too. And the almost 9 yr old [boy] is coming along too. We talk about these things with them all the time. Youtube is a GREAT tool for showing them examples of false teaching. And we listen to a LOT of great teaching too and discuss it. I love talking about Jesus with my family. I only wish my extended family felt the same. Jason's family is definitely in love with the Lord and loves to discuss spiritual things, but my family remains immature and carnal, despite my Dad's best attempts to instruct us before he died in 1990.
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end of email to James and Jackie
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Returning to my bullying middle sister and her rather inconsiderate behavior...she was like that as a kid too. She bullied me a lot, being 7 years older than me, and nothing has changed all that much since her supposed conversion. I remember one day I, as kids will occasionally do, spilled a chocolate shake when she was babysitting me. I was about 8 or 9. She literally SCREAMED at me, chased me upstairs, and pinned me down on the bed by the wrists, and yelled in my face for fifteen minutes straight about how horrid I was and how I ought to be ashamed of myself. Ah the good old days. When I cross her she is still quite a bully.
She has apologized for her rude treatment of me as a kid. She called me in tears one morning after my mother relayed somethng I had told her about our childhood (basically that I dont' remember much of anything about her except her pushing me around and making me feel like she hated me), and so I forgive her for that. But I still long to see fruit in her life in keeping with her years.
A few years ago she blew up at me for her shirt getting caught on a fish hook in my car - you know, I had my rod in the back of the station wagon, with the spinner hooked securely to a rod guide, and the rod was up over the back of the back seat so she brushed against it when leaning into the car. She went in there to put my daughter in her car for me and I was following her out the door about fifteen seconds later. She was already mad at me because I was feeling down about something and she seems to think that means I'm mad at her. Well, she had been sniping at me all weekend already but I had refrained from responding in kind. So she yells at me to get the fishhook out of her shirt. I started to explain why the tight weave of her shirt may not let me easily back it out over the barb. But she yelled before I got two words out "Then CUT THE HOOK!" I started to explain why that would be difficult, but I was surely willing to do it, but I didn't get two words out and she YELLED "Then you SURE better buy me a new shirt!" This from a 34 year old lady. These are the anger filled codependent types that gravitate toward the Bentley type word faith Toronto Curse phenomenon. I have seen it over and over again.
I stopped trying to reason with her and immediately came back into the house crying. She and my mom left for church in my mother's car, and my daughter was left sitting in the car seat for a few minutes. My husband and me and the girls (this was a few years before our son was born) had been going to leave for home, a 9 hour drive, after lunch. Instead, we packed up and left. I left a note on the table for her explaining why I could not simply 'cut' the hook to get it free - those larger Mepps spinner tri-hooks are incredibly strong. But she hadn't listened to me try to explain when I was at her side. Instead she just yelled every time I opened my mouth. I also explained that she had been snipping at me with saracastic hurtful comments all weekend and I didn't appreciate it, and this last blow up was completely uncalled for.
My mother fills me in that her reaction upon reading the note was to burst into tears herself and spit out sarcastically "It's ALWAYS MY FAULT!"
When we arrived home, there was a message on my answering machine. For reasons of keeping my sanity, I waited three days until I was less emotional to listen to it. The message, when I finally listened to it, was delivered in a very clipped and chiding tone. It said "I'm sorry, Paula, for losing my temper but I am not a perfect person. God is still working on me. BUT YOU ARE A VERY UNHAPPY PERSON and I AM NOT going to take responsibility for your unhappiness anymore. I love you and I want you to be free but I can't take responsibility for your unhappiness anymore."
I just sat there with my mouth open and then laughed out loud in shock. Sure I struggle with depression, sure I have unhappy times, but have I ever blamed her? Was this an apology for anything specific? Did she have NO clue???
I have another story where she blew up at me for explaining how I had (in the past) used a home electrolysis kit on an aberrant eyelash, which for years my mom and dad didn't believe I had, as a kid. They always told me it was all in my head. The point of the story was that Mom and Dad didn't believe ALL THREE OF US a lot of the time about some of these things, and we were chuckling about it... until she started yelling at me for being so foolish as to use an electrolysis kit. "Don't you know you can get a terrible infection or allergic reaction" blah blah (yes I know you can have problems but I was desperate after 30 some years of irritation, and the chances of allergic reaction are going to be FAR greater with electrolysis tools that are SHARED with others! Mine was not!) But she jumped all over every word I said so I could not get a word in edgewise. I was speaking very quietly and calmly, refusing to raise my voice to the level she was using. The level she was using got higher and higher, until finally she ran out of the room in tears. It seems every time we got together we'd have one of these situations. So it's probably a good thing she lives so far away. *sigh* I wish it were different.
My oldest sister witnessed the whole thing and was aghast at my other sister's behavior.
Well, I have prayed many long years for her and I expect if she's caught up in the Rick Joyner/Todd Bentley gnosticism, it will be many more.
Moral of the story -- I wouldn't let charismaniacs babysit my small children, no. At least not over any time period where they might take the children to church.
